In my reading of, "How To Tame
A Wild Tongue" by Gloria Anzaldua, she touch so many of the buttons which
resonate in to how I define identity. Simply, identity is how someone portrayed
or sees him answering the basic purpose of existence. In her short story,
Gloria showed how language, family, community, religion, and environment
had shaped her identity. I like the emphasis and the power of language
in Anzaldua writing, “So, if you want to really hurt me, talk badly
about my language. Ethnic identity is twin skin to linguistic identity- I am my
language."
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| Gebremedhin Teshale |
I am no different than most of the
people in my class. But the influence and shaping power my dad had on me was so
immense. My dad, Gebremedhin Teshale, was very honest, impartial, courageous,
bright minded, faithful and religious man. He was born and rise in a family of
13 children with a very strict father in a very remote village where there is
no school, health clinic----nothing was there. Sincerely looking for education,
he moved in to a provincial town called Dessie, where his uncle, a priest
resided. Finally he found and joined elementary school where any level of
education considered to a man being, "Civilized". After this, he got
married, bare children, hired and worked as an accountant for 36 years in Boru
Meda Hospital located in Ethiopia. During his time of service, he made
the Hospital profitable by working hard and being honest towards his assignment
on the stewardship of money. The Hospital he worked for stood most of the time
first and other times second among other Hospitals in our Province. Besides, he
was a man of God. He had faith that made him stood by on what he believed. He stood
for justice and equal rights. He fought for many victims who were betrayed
by the higher management and continued to be an advocate to the poor. In
response he got pushed out of his position and even transferred to another
location. He never quit there. He took the injustice done to him to the
regional Supreme Court and at last found justice. Nonetheless, the provincial
government ignored the decision of the higher court and went on doing business
as usual. In all these, I saw a man of honor integrity, persistence,
perseverance and never say no to thing. He shaped me to be honest, respectful, and
faithful above all to have a faith in God and his son Jesus Christ. Till the
time I moved in to California, I lived and worked with so many people and all
over the country that have different language, culture and personality than me.
And I managed to live with them in harmony, peace, personal integrity and with
a sense of purpose.

Thank you so much for sharing this powerful narrative about your Dad. I enjoyed your explanation of his struggles and how he has shaped you as a person. Your writing is really improving Tsegaye! Keep up the great work!
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